The TOP 10 Things I did to become successful in my online business!

And a little bit about the journey that took me there.... oh what a difference 2 years can make!

I have a habit of getting distracted.

August 2014, the same month I launched my first coaching website on WP I stumbled upon the opportunity to be one of 200 beta testers for a new company & product by Stella & Dot called KEEP Collective.

It was a "social selling" company which I thought meant sell through social media but it actually meant selling socially (in person) through their home parties called "Socials". 

I'll admit I had visions of dollar bills in my head,

to be on the ground floor of an established company (I had always said if I had found S&D before Thirty-one is be selling that now and not bags). I knew my colleagues who got in in the beginning have made 10s of thousands per month for Years. I wanted that to be me.

 I was just one of 200 testers in the nation, and the FIRST person in my state to get samples.

I though if I was one of the "first ones" to start building a team that I would be one of the founding designers. I was even trying to get one of the coveted 100 spots and the Tiffany pendant that came with it. If I was one of the first 5 I'd get a 10k bonus! I grew my team to 20 in 3 short months but then it fizzled out. I had booked just one social and these people didn't even know they we're coming to a jewelry party (it was a straight up drinking party) and I didn't know either but I set up my table and tried to "work it". The only person that ended up buying was my hostess. It was a flop to say the least.

I had been pouring so much energy into this new biz and second team --- and at the time I had a thirty-one team of 300+

AND

I had just launched my coaching biz. say what!!?? Isn't that like 3 businesses? Um yea.

I don't know why I got so distracted from the business I had had for 6 years and the new one I just started. I guess u could say I thought the grass was greener on the other side.

And for some of my peers it was!

Most of the leaders killing it with Keep were also leaders with thirty-one. Including one who had been the TOP recruiter the previous year and a guest in Cindy Monroe, our founders home. In fact the first leader to reach the top of the comp plan was THAT thirty-one consultant!!!

I came to the conclusion that 2 businesses with monthly quotas and 2 teams...

was just not going to work for me...

Keep in mind before I figured that out I had niched as a Direct Sales coach as I thought this could be a way I could work with BOTH my teams at the same time.

But there was still a problem.

My heart wasn't in it. 

I had "outgrown" the direct sales model which I had so loved. I had been shown ways to make money and passive income without relying on a team.... Dragging my loot to houses or spending hours standing at a vendor event trying to book a party.

I wanted to help women in ANY biz not just direct sellers. I'd now had 10 years business experience in 3 different biz models.

He who chases 2 rabbits catches none
~Chinese proverb

I'd be lying to you if I told you I didn't want to be the first top level leader with Keep but, 

that wasn't my destination it was just a chapter.

Shortly there after on of my coaches who I went to a retreat with 4 years ago launched her own coaching school online and so I began to uplevel my coaching expertise and learn from a mom that had three little kids a husband and a thriving lucrative coaching practice. I wanted to be like her!

During that training I got paired with a partner to practice my coaching skills on.

She loved me so much that she wanted to pay me but I wouldn't let her.

When the 12 practice weeks were up she was eager to hire me as her coach and she did!

Only problem was after 6+ mo she was the ONLY person to hire me as her coach. I'd had plenty of calls with potential clients but I had YET to get a client that didn't think they needed to make money first and THEN hire me. And u know how that goes.... They stay stuck and I stay broke.

It was also during this time I decided I needed to make my plan B (my coaching biz) my plan A. The stars aligned and I found a team to help brand me and bring personality to my pixels.

I spent 3 full months neglecting my direct sales biz and family while crafting and launching my rebrand (as a biz coach not direct sales coach).

I though THEN people would be banging down my door to hire me.... They weren't.

So in Jan 2015 after declaring for MONTHS "I'm gonna make 10k this mo" I declared I'm gonna work for FREE the whole month of Jan and that's when I birthed my #29onlinemarketingtips free training to build my list.

Then my Grammie (and last grandparent) passed away --- I sent her to heaven but that's another story. and my husband and I went on a weeklong cruise so I stopped at tip #21 and never finished the project.

I picked up 2 design jobs doing a webinar slide deck (with free coaching) + a sales page.... I earned $1000 in 2 weeks in April but I still wasn't making money being a "coach".

At this point I had to laugh or cry about it.

I couldn't get a client to save my life, or pay my bills for that matter. 

It was beyond frustrating and stressful. In fact when my Grammie was dying I had to borrow money from my husband just to put gas in my car to go see her. I had no room on any of my credit cards for a tank of gas and no cash. I couldn't even just jump in my car to go see my dying grandma!!!!!

I was a slave and a prisoner to my own debt which I incurred on my quest to financial freedom - talk about irony!

And then something changed the trajectory of my biz --- I had bought "another" coarse behind my husbands back and against his wishes --- but it changed everything. I had the money to pay for the first of 6, $197 payments because of the design job.

The course was to teach me how to build a course in 30 days and I was one motivated student so I did! I had 270 students register and the ones that showed up like me in my course in "my course" made leaps and bounds in their biz I was blown away and amused that I could get nearly 300 students much easier then I could get 1 client (wtf!) πŸ˜œ

Then I had what I like to call my "no launch launch" and offered lifetime student memberships to my students! I called it "beta for life" and 14 people bought it! I had made 10x return on my own investment. The first measurable ROTI in 2+ yearsπŸ‘πŸΌ

I had no idea I would end up where I am teaching online marketing and marrying my love for coaching with my love for design!

How did I get here?

1. I never quit or gave up (trust me I thought about it)

2. I believed in ME and my mission to empower others to empower others

3. I prayed

4. I hustled my buns off

5. I put my whole heart into my biz

6. I rebranded

7. I got clear on what I sell

8. I got clear on who I wanted to sell it to

9. I stopped listening to "the noise" online and started to listen to myself --- this is the ONE thing that changed EVERYTHING

10. I found my tribe

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If you are struggling to build your online business.
If there are more days you want to quit than keep going.
If you're so tired you don't even know what "awake" feels like.
If you are a prisoner to your paycheck.
If you think maybe success isn't meant for you, after all.

I want to let you know you are not ALONE. 

Entrepreneurship is a long and lonely road at times but I promise you the best view is from the highest mountain. 

Keep the faith.
Keep the heart.
Keep the hustle.

Dreams do come true!

I'd love to give you the inside scoop on how to REALLY build your own business online with my 29 BEST MARKETING tips....

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Holy Shift.... 225 clients!

I am in complete shock and utter awe!

13 days ago I began my search for beta testers for my brand new marketing course. You may have seen me post it here. 

I had 10 days until class began.

My goal, 100 applications.

I remember PUSHING just to get to 30 (ugh why does Luke, my fellow course launcher classmate, have more than 200 and I "just" have 30!?) NO FAIR!

But I was determined to hit my goal and I wasn't stopping until I did.

I spent an entire week pimping my application.

I invited people to "get out of overwhelm and into action" with me. I could post in one group and get crickets not one bite, but I found one group where I got 80 people wanting more info and a few other groups were people responded. 

I always hear my mentor Cindy Monroe say "If they're not saying yes, you're not asking the right people" when it comes to booking parties. Cindy says there is always somebody waiting for you to ask them and where there is one there is more. 

I've had this idea of a marketing course in my head for 2 years now and I knew it was now or never!!! We were supposed to launch our course by the end of May.

Guess, what? 

School is out June 1st, a half day at that.

CRAP!

How the hell am I going to pull off this course BEFORE school lets out?

I guess I'll just wait, maybe in Sept when she's back in school and I have more time to build my list, then I'll start.

Screw that! I'm going for it.

It's "beta" after all, and it's all an experiment. I KNOW without a doubt what I have to teach people WILL change their business which will change their life. I can't keep it to myself anymore.

The applications keep rolling in.

I hit 100...120...150....170....200 WOAH!!!!! 

I prayed for these people, God led them to me, how could I NOT help them all?

And so I listened to my heart and said "screw it" I'm just accepting everyone. However, this was only after I spent hours, and hours pouring over surveys, there was no way I could get through all of them and I didn't want to miss someone that needed it.

So anyone and everyone that applied was accepted.

With one caveat.... THEY HAD TO DO THE WORK!

If they didn't? I'll kick them out of class.

Class has been in session just 5 days, now. Remember 2 weeks ago I didn't even have ANY applicants and now I have more than 225 ambitious students who want to learn from ME!

I've hear students say things like:
β€’ I was so excited after our office hours I pitched to the Huff Post and was accepted 3hrs later
β€’ I haven't written a blog post since 2012 and I'm so going to do one now
β€’ I'm off to the post office to register my PO Box so I can start sending emails to my tribe
β€’ This is actually FUN you make it so simple
β€’ If I didn't know I was going to get kicked out for not doing my homework I'm pretty sure I wouldn't have done it

I am so grateful for the opportunity to learn and grow with them. We have a freaking FANTASTIC group of business owners.

The VIBE of my TRIBE is off the hook! 

And I can not wait to see what the accomplish in the next 3 weeks and share the surprise I have waiting for them and ONLY them! 

These people are VERY special to me and thank God everyday for bringing them into my life.

I want to encourage you even when it feels like an uphill battle to build your business online to keep putting one foot in front of the other.

Listen to those intuitive nudges.

Follow your heart.

Keep the faith.

Keep hustling.

and I promise you...

Your tribe WILL find you!

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